Five Foreplay Ideas That Won’t Fail

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New relationships progress and slowly fizzle out with no spark left and sex becomes a mundane and boring activity to either one or maybe both the partners at times.

Here are five innovative foreplay ideas for you that have stood the pressure of time and have worked always.

Try these and tell us what worked for you.

ZARA ZARA TOUCH ME

Do not underestimate the power of a teasing caress or a touch! Run your finger teasingly through your partner’s back, thigh, groin. Look them in the eyes while you caress their face and watch those shivers run down their spine. And when you feel the heat is turned on, probably dig those fingernails into their skin.

TEASE

There is no one way to tease your partner. Get innovative. Text them. Or rather sext them from work as a prelude of what’s to come for the night. Tease them with sexy pictures, nudes if you will. Whisper tender words in their ear, and gently blow on it. Catch them by surprise from behind and kiss, caress, nibble, bite, lick or just blow on their neck and watch them shudder in arousal. Or maybe add a striptease by undressing slowly!

Try these before the actual action is about to begin and get your partner into the mood for what is to come. These help to further the anticipation and get those butterflies fluttering in the tummy. Create suspense of what is to come because the thrill of the unknown is extremely exciting- the same reason why we love thrillers, mysteries, and horror movies.

Lovemaking does not always have to be penetrative. Do what works for you and your partner. There are many ways to orgasms and don’t hesitate to take the help of sexual aids if you have to get there. Don’t put the entire pressure of performance on your partner and you. Enjoy the moment, communicate and ask what they would like to get done to them or what they would like to do. This makes things easier and takes off the stress of not knowing what they like and want.

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It is the age of the internet and along with the way we communicate, even intimacy, sex and relationships and sexual interactions have taken a different route- the route of technology. People in long-distance relationships or those dating online through apps like Tinder, Bumble, etc. are connecting with each other through social media platforms or messaging apps like Whatsapp.

Indulging online in consensual sex and relationships and flirtatious chats is now the new age of dating and nightstands. Sexting and video chats are becoming more and more common and as long as it is informed and consensual it is the individual’s decision to make. However, when not knowing the person at the other end, while dating a stranger, or when relationships go sour, these can often backfire taking the form of blackmail or revenge porn. Not to forget data hacks or mobile phone thefts where information can get into the wrong hands. Therefore it is very important to always be careful when indulging in such acts, no matter how trustworthy or safe things may seem at that moment.

Here are some points to help you indulge in safe online conversations while exchanging intimate pictures:

1. The decision is yours to make so ask yourself if you are completely comfortable doing this and that you won’t regret it later.

2. If you have met your partner recently then you must always think twice before sharing any intimate pictures. Even in long-term relationships, make sure you trust your partner fully, know about his past and have certain mutual friends in order to do a character check before sharing anything.

3. If at any point in time you feel that you are being pressured or emotionally guilt-tripped into sharing things, and it is making you uncomfortable, then this is certainly a red flag.

4. It is always better to crop your face out of intimate pictures, hide any prominent scars or identification marks and any obvious background that may reveal your identity. You can always use a filter and blur the background. Also, make sure your location is turned off before sending.

Two adults indulging in informed consensual sex is healthy as long as the trust is there equally on both sides. However, if such a situation is to arise where your pictures are misused by your partner, found on porn sites, or are being used to blackmail you, there are laws that can help to protect you.

Cyber Law

The Cyber law Section 66E – Publishing private Images of Others states that:
If a person captures, transmits or publishes images of a person’s private parts without his/her consent or knowledge, the person is entitled to imprisonment up to 3 years of fine up to 2 Lakhs INR or both
Source: www.infosecawareness.in/cyber-laws-of-india

IT Act for cyber harassment

Information Technology Act 2000 says that If any person is publishing or sending any salacious material in the form of electronic media is to be charged under section 67 of the Act.

Section 499 of the IPC, protects victims against harassment through remarks on social media or by posting obscene photographs. Even Section 507 of the IPC, which addresses any individual whose intention is to intimidate women or threaten them anonymously — online could help by awarding the perpetrator a jail time of two years.

Section 500 of the Indian Penal Code that deals with defamation, can be applied in case of cyberstalking in India and criminalizes publishing any false statement against a person or harming the person’s reputation and provides punishment for any such act with imprisonment up to 2 years, fine or both.

www.cybercrime.gov.in is set up by the Ministry of Home affairs. This portal caters to complaints pertaining to cybercrimes only with a special focus on cyber crimes against women and children.

You can also visit www.cyberpolice.nic.in to lodge a complaint.

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