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Are We Having a Jihad with Love, Sex, PDA, or Religion?

Written By: Humzaad
November 27, 2020 |
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One other thing which ruffles the feathers of some Indians after Love Jihad is the Public Display of Affection (PDA). The recent controversy surrounding the kissing scene from the web series, A Suitable Boy was enough to send some radicals reeling. It had all the ingredients present to hurt their sentiments- an unmarried interfaith couple, a kissing scene, and that too in a holy place of worship.

But the point they completely missed was that this was fiction from a piece of art, not even a real incident. However, this point was totally lost on the moral police who actually registered an FIR against the OTT producers.

While some are still figuring out whether to laugh or cry at this, one can’t help but wonder how these people are so selective in their choice of outrage? When Asifa and Alfia were raped in temples by pujaris, this act was lost on the same people who are today raising a voice-over something which did not even happen in real life? How bizarre and misguided their ideals are, I wonder.

To prevent young people from falling in love out of their caste/religion, stopping them from indulging in consensual PDA, passing bills to stop interfaith marriages, seem to be more important. Throughout women’s history, men have only been setting rules and deciding what they should do right from what to wear, how to sit, what to say, who to love, who to marry, etc.

The fact that marriages can fail even between couples from the same caste/religion, domestic abuse, rapes, and sexual abuse happen inside and outside marriages, and children being raped and killed in places of worship is the reality seems lost on them and is completely ignored. Whereas, these are the issues that should make their blood boil, as actor Swara Bhaskar rightly pointed out.

Srirangam temple sculpture Orgy
Photo Courtesy: Prathap Gandhi

India is the land of Kama sutra, a land with explicit sexual carvings on temple walls of Khajuraho, proclaiming and normalizing sex and sexuality. But the people of this country pretend that we don’t have sex. This is the biggest joke ever coming from one of the world’s most populated countries.

SEX is a Natural Act

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Photo Courtesy: Prathap Gandhi

Say SEX loudly and you have probably embarrassed someone around you and made them go “Hawww”. Kissing as an act of love is deemed dirty but violence in the name of religion is allowed?! 

Our misplaced ideals and priorities need to be questioned. Acts like filing an FIR for a fictional scene should be called out as should the people who have raised such an objection. 

To pretend that the people of country are living their lives by their religious ideals, not indulging in sexual acts and are treating each other with great respect is the biggest hypocrisy ever. And the moral police remain as confused as ever on which battles to fight. *sighs*

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Humzaad is a content writer who wishes to bring an alternate reality of the world to light with her writings. She talks about taboos and shunned topics often brushed under the carpet or discussed in hushed tones. Every writer has an alter ego and this profile is hers. Her writings often come with a trigger warning.
On other days you will find her gardening or making art. You can reach her at humzaadthewriter@gmail.com

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Love, Sex and Quarantine

Written By: Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin
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Practicing love, sex and quarantine may be a difficult time for many during this COVID pandemic, safe sex can be a great way to engage because there is never such thing as too much love. First things first- COVID 19 though an upper respiratory tract infection, is not a sexually transmitted disease but still, there is a high risk of transmission as close proximity is involved.

When partners are quarantined together and have no symptoms of the virus (like fever, sore throat, shortness of breath), then indulging in some physical intimacy can be a great way to bond, get more closer and get experimental with your significant other. Also these points can help reduce the risk of transmitting infections during sex.

Fly solo

Self pleasure is by far the best way to enjoy sexual pleasure with zero risks. Make sure the hands are washed and clean before and after the act and practice good self hygiene. Read some exciting literature to get in the mood. Mutual masturbation can be a great way to indulge in the act together without physically touching each other.

Bring out the toys to play

Sex toys can be a great plaything for singles and couples and can heighten the sexual experience. Clean the toys thoroughly before and after use.

Go Online

One blessed thing is the presence of technology. Partners far away from each other can use technology to sext, phone sex, video call, photo sharing, and heat things up with some dirty talk. Facetime, Zoom, Skype- the options are quite vast. Dating apps like Tinder can be a great platform to find like-minded people for those who are single and are feeling socially isolated.

Stay loyal

This is obviously not an ideal time to indulge with multiple sexual partners or indulge in random sex. It’s best to stay loyal in order to narrow the network of people to interact with, and thereby reduce the chances of an infection. A one night stand with a stranger is definitely a no-no during quarantine.

Use rubbers

With hospitals filled to the brim with infected cases, this is not an ideal time to contract an STI. Use condoms, wash hands, and self before and after a session, and clean the sheets. Practice utmost personal hygiene to reduce the risk of STDs and save a visit to the clinic or hospital and increase the chance of exposure to more infections. Women who are not looking to get pregnant need to exercise more caution to reduce the risk of conception with proper birth control measures.

Quarantine may be an ideal time to increase intimacy between partners. Sex, as we know, releases dopamine and oxytocin, which elevate mood, reduces stress, anxiety and boosts overall health. Physical intimacy can provide a sense of security and help partners enjoy a deeper and more emotional connection with each other. But always remember- safety and hygiene comes first!

Let us know if you learned to balance love, sex and quarantine.

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Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin

Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin has done her masters in Journalism & Communication and has worked as a senior journalist, editor and columnist for leading publications like The Logical Indian, Deccan Chronicle, Worldwide Media Corporation, The Bridge and Provoke.
With Infano, she hopes to create more awareness about women’s health issues. Suffering with Fibromyalgia, a chronic pain condition, she has also been advocating for its awareness through media.

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