Skip to content
Infano-logo
  • Health & Fitness
  • Sexual Health
  • Mental Health
  • Periods
  • Pregnancy
  • Parenting
  • PCOS
  • HerStory
  • Campaign
  • Download App
  • pink-search-icon
    • Close
Infano-logo
  • Health & Fitness
  • Sexual Health
  • Mental Health
  • Periods
  • Pregnancy
  • Parenting
  • PCOS
  • HerStory
  • Campaign
  • Download App
  • pink-search-icon
    • Close
  • Health & Fitness
  • Sexual Health
  • Mental Health
  • Periods
  • Pregnancy
  • Parenting
  • PCOS
  • HerStory
  • Campaign
  • Download App
  • pink-search-icon
    • Close

Fit To Fat: Journey Of Mrs Eco International 2018 & Mrs India Earth 2017!

Written By: Sonali
October 28, 2020
  • Full Read
Spread the love

I have always believed in the phrase “I Can” and because of my will power I always change it into “I Did It”. That’s how I have come so far in my life .

When I got pregnant for the second time little I knew that it’s going to be a life changing experience. During my 21st week of pregnancy something happened and I had a miscarriage. I had a lot of blood loss and I was almost losing myself. Somehow doctors revived me and I was saved. As much as it was physical loss, more than that it was an emotional loss for me. When a mother loses her child she always thinks it’s her failure and I also thought in the same way. It was a very uneasy time for me emotionally but I already had a daughter to look after and because of her I was gaining my strength back. 

After a few months I was pregnant again and this news was very healing for me but again as I was weak I had to be on complete bed rest.  I was not even allowed to visit the washroom. But I was very determined that I wanted this baby anyhow. 

My doctors were worried because of my health. By the time I reached my 23rd week of my 3rd pregnancy, I was diabetic and was gaining weight rapidly. By my 6th month, I was almost 76 kgs. I was on insulin thrice a day.  I still can’t believe that I used to poke myself 4 times to check my sugar level and inject myself 3 times to take insulin.  I am very very scared of injections even today. 

After delivery I was 88kgs with no strength in my back and legs. I was totally taken aback when I realised that I  was not able to walk. But I had to gain the strength back as I wanted to play with my baby and hold him in my arms. 

Gradually, I started my training and fat loss journey. During my fat loss journey when I was 70 kgs I came to know that now I have one more unwanted guest – PCOS. It made my journey troublesome but I was no less. Rigid that I am,  with proper nutrition and exercise I reversed my PCOS completely. 

Today I am PCOS free and a very healthy and confident woman and a mother of two beautiful kids.

I have written this as I want to tell you all that if a moment ever comes in life that you feel defeated –  Always remember the person you wanted to be. Take small and steady steps, maybe you will fail but you will surely learn something from your failure. 

Look back, appreciate yourself for becoming the person you are today. Always remember that you are unique and that you will always strive for the best.

Sonali

A 'non-9-5 desk job' ambivert geek who chooses her own audience, Sonali loves sharing stories and finding the corners where humanity still exists! She believes that every individual's story is unique and special. She loves writing about the untouched and unspoken segments of society. When not writing, you can find her listening to someone's stories or playing with dogs. Sonali values mental health and encourages people to speak their heart out!

Leave a Comment Cancel reply

Infano Care

Loving & Normalising Stretch Marks: One Mark At A Time!

Written By: Sonali
February 25, 2022 | 01:20 PM |
882

Highlights

  • What are stretch marks?
  • Body-shaming around stretch marks.
  • Breaking the taboo.
  • #LinesAreWorthy by women.
  • Quick Read
  • Full Read

Stretch marks! There isn’t a single person on this planet who doesn’t have them somewhere on their body. Those marks prove that we are growing and living the way we should be! Still, we consider it as if we have committed some nasty crime, and the proof of the same has been planted on us in the form of stretch marks.

Not anymore! It’s high time that we start normalising them because, well, they are normal!!

Women who make a point publicly and share their views & experiences with stretch marks are an important reminder of this. These body positivity people commonly celebrate their stretch marks.

The best way you can normalise stretch marks is to walk with confidence and show them more. People are more likely to start doing something when they see other people doing it, especially when they’ve been afraid to do so.

From finding people stereotyping it to ‘you’ accepting it and your body, here are some of my favourite women who are normalising stretch marks. #LinesAreWorthy

Spread the love

Stretch marks! There isn’t a single person on this planet who doesn’t have them somewhere on their body. But unfortunately, most of us are still not aware of what stretch marks are. What we only know is that we need to hide these marks and feel ashamed for having them ― as if they are shameful on our bodies. But, unfortunately, this is all our so-called today’s society teaches us. 

Stretch marks occur when our skin does expand or undergo changes rapidly. They appear on our skin as our bodies change and grow ― be it pregnancy, puberty, or growth spurts. Instead of seeing them as shameful marks, they should be celebrated. Those marks prove that we are growing and living the way we should be!

These marks are more common on female bodies as they tend to go through more bodily changes compared to males. Changes like pregnancies, breast growth during puberty, and multiple of them, are seen in women all because their bodies grow with age, and their skin adapts to this natural growth. We need to accept the fact that stretch marks are completely normal and out of our control.

We witness so many products and YouTube tutorials claiming to reduce/ remove stretch marks; it is no wonder why women look at them with embarrassment and shame. We consider it as if we have committed some nasty crime, and the proof of the same has been planted on us in the form of stretch marks. 

Not anymore! It’s high time that we start normalising them because, well, they are normal!!

How can we cut the shame and start to show more love to our stretch marks?

Women who make a point publicly and share their views & experiences with stretch marks are an important reminder of this. These body positivity people commonly celebrate their marks. From finding people stereotyping it to ‘you’ accepting it and your body, here are some of my favourite women who are normalising stretch marks. #LinesAreWorthy

Sohini Ghaie

“We appreciate seeing tattoos on other people’s bodies, and they are imprinted in a person’s skin deliberately. But stretch marks are beautiful innate tattoos that are signs of a struggle of the phase of our life that has made us who we are today! We are in the year 2022, and we need to get over the reel beauty and focus on the aspect of real beauty. I lost a huge amount of weight during the lockdown. I can still see the stretch marks on my waist. But that’s okay. I take it positively and just remind myself how beautifully I have transformed and how this is an evident scar that shows me what I am today. These are beautiful imperfections that aren’t shown in movies because they are supposedly ugly.

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by Sohini Ghaie (@pandathinksof)

But on the contrary, it shows how raw you are. How real you are! It’s there… we need to accept it instead of visiting dermatologists and burning our wallets. Stretch marks used to bother me when I was in my early 20s. But today, I am 29, and I have come a long way. And I defined beauty for myself. I work on myself mentally and physically. When we give our definition of beauty, then it doesn’t matter what society tells us. We need to tell ourselves that we are beautiful no matter what and don’t think what the society says because Kuch Toh Log Kahenge, Logo Ka Kaam Hai Kehna,” says the Mumbai based digital creator.

Brynta

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by brynta (@bryntstagram)

Self-love and plus-size fashion influencer Brynta shares things like stretch marks and discolouration from her specific perspective as a South Asian woman. As she writes in one post, “As a woman (from the South Asian community), I was shamed for every little imperfection, which included textured/discoloured skin, of which I’ve had for most of my life…Fair and lovely, turmeric masks that burned our faces, cellulite gel, and so many other things were given to us as ‘remedies’ for what the world deemed as a problem.”

Dhruti Shah

“Most women often consider stretch marks a result of carelessness and find them ugly. They aren’t aware that these marks are as natural as any other body part. With each passing day, we should open up and discuss body scars and size more often. We should accept and love our bodies the way they are. Stretch marks shouldn’t be undermined or seen as a flaw in one’s beauty. Scars might not look nice on one’s body, but that doesn’t invalidate a person’s beauty. Women should take pride in one’s bodies, especially in such intimate areas. Also, having stretch marks doesn’t make you any less beautiful, so don’t let anyone make you feel otherwise,” shares the Gujarat based girl.

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by Jen Dela (@alltheway_fit)

Olivia Muenter

“The first time I noticed my own stretch marks was when a friend noticed them. As I got older, my stretch marks became my most dreaded physical benchmarks when it came to what would be a decade-long obsession with losing and gaining weight. As I started college and no longer had weekly hours-long sports practices, stretch marks started to appear on my breasts and higher up on my hips. It wasn’t until a couple of years after I graduated college that I discovered things like body neutrality and health at any size, both concepts that I was mainly introduced to by, surprisingly, influencers.

These were people who proudly posted on Instagram about their bodies and their insecurities. They taught me that I could be happy at any size—that  I deserved to be. They also reminded me that I wasn’t the only person in the world who was a size 14 or had stretch marks.”

Olivia

The best way you can normalise stretch marks is to walk with confidence and show them more. People are more likely to start doing something when they see other people doing it, especially when they’ve been afraid to do so. 

The first step is the most important but is the hardest one. Put on your favourite bikini regardless of your marks. Wear whatever you want to wear this summer, and get ready to flaunt them. Post a picture without getting it edited and let the stretch marks shine. Share body positive posts and pictures on Instagram that show off stretch marks in all their glory. Together we can do this!

If you have been stretch mark-shamed, do write to us. Share your thoughts and inspire the world! #LinesAreWorthy

Body positivityBody shamingbodyshamingmy body my choicestretch marksWomen Health

Sonali

A 'non-9-5 desk job' ambivert geek who chooses her own audience, Sonali loves sharing stories and finding the corners where humanity still exists! She believes that every individual's story is unique and special. She loves writing about the untouched and unspoken segments of society. When not writing, you can find her listening to someone's stories or playing with dogs. Sonali values mental health and encourages people to speak their heart out!

Related Posts

Parenting 3 mins Read

How to Deal When Your Adopted Child Wants to Meet Her Birth Parents

Written By: Sindhu Kambam June, 4 2021 | 09:15 AM
HerStory 5 mins Read

These Yoginis Are Redefining Fitness On International Yoga Day

Written By: Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin June, 21 2021 | 09:00 AM
Pregnancy 4 mins Read

Dealing With Pregnancy And Post-pregnancy Weight Gain

Written By: Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin December, 4 2021 | 03:00 PM
Health & Fitness 6 mins Read

Three Things This Holistic Lifestyle Coach Wants Women To Know

Written By: Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin July, 21 2021 | 02:51 PM
Health & Fitness 3 mins Read

Here’s Why You Must Take Ayurveda Medicines Under Expert Guidance

Written By: Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin July, 3 2021 | 02:15 PM
HerStory 5 mins Read

Why Acid Attack Didn’t Burn This Survivor’s Spirit

Written By: Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin August, 31 2020 | 05:01 PM
Social 3 mins Read

Two Decades Of Eyewitnessing Sexual Abuse: I Know It Will Not Stop Ever!

Written By: Sonali August, 22 2020 | 03:15 PM
Mental Health 2 mins Read

Things Not To Say To An Abuse Survivor

Written By: Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin July, 10 2021 | 03:13 PM
Parenting 3 mins Read

Is Your Child Bedwetting ?

Written By: Shweta Singh July, 12 2022 | 09:58 PM
Lifestyle 3 mins Read

Why Avoid Skin-Lightening Products ‘At All Costs’

Written By: Misha April, 16 2022 | 12:54 PM
HerStory 4 mins Read

#MyStory: How I Went On To Become India’s Notable Criminal Lawyer And Psychologist!

Written By: Sonali January, 6 2021 | 11:47 AM
Mental Health 5 mins Read

Mental Health Check: Are You The “I’m too independent,” Or “I’m too clingy and needy” Type?

Written By: Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin February, 22 2022 | 10:30 AM
Social 4 mins Read

I-Tutorial 101: What Is ‘Flashing’? Is That A Real Crime?

Written By: Sonali November, 13 2020 | 06:18 PM
HerStory 4 mins Read

Indian Air Force Day: Meet The Women Officers Who Created A History In The IAF!

Written By: Sonali October, 8 2020 | 01:45 PM
Sexual Health 4 mins Read

Tips For Couples For Better Communication In Relationships

Written By: Humzaad December, 29 2021 | 10:00 AM
Periods 4 mins Read

Menstrual Cup; Why Should You Choose It?

Written By: Shweta Singh September, 6 2022 | 03:11 PM

Subscribe to our Newsletter

To keep yourself updated with women-related news around the globe, articles, opinions, suggestions and exclusive offers that you should not miss, subscribe to our newsletter.

    Home | About Us | Contact Us | Terms & Conditions | Cancellations and Refund Policy | Privacy Policy
    © 2023 Infano Women's Health | Lifestyle | Success Stories • Powered by GeneratePress

    Insert/edit link

    Enter the destination URL

    Or link to existing content

      No search term specified. Showing recent items. Search or use up and down arrow keys to select an item.