Is your marriage losing its thrill because of boring sex life? Here are 8 things you can try to bring the excitement back.
1. Anticipation + Variety = Great Sex
All good things come to those who wait. Delay penetration till he can take it no longer. Extend your foreplay with kisses, teases, orals. Just don’t let him enter till he gets really desperate and begs you to.
2. Circle of light
Do not underestimate the power of scented candles in your bedroom. Lights off for this one.
3. Raise your glass
Planning on oral sex for the night? Raise a toast first. A cold sip of champagne or even 7 Up can bring a new zing to the act.
4. The bet
Challenge him saying you can bring him to a climax before he can do the same for you. Winner gets a prize.
5. Surprise him
Send him a sexy lacy panty into his lunch box or leave it on the top of his drawer in his wardrobe after a night of great sex with a note, “Tonight. Again.”. It will remind him of the experience and send sensations down his groin.
6. The male nipple is a thing
Use honey, chocolate sauce or what you will on his nipples. Your dessert is ready.
7. Boys like toys
Satin blind fold, furry handcuffs, vibrators and dildos – pick any two and you have a permutation and combination of crazy things for experimentation.
8. I want you and I want you right now
Have a quickie in the most unexpected place and time. The adrenaline rush of doing it in a different room at an unusual time and the fear of being caught by kids/family/maid will up your game and excitement levels. Remember, the idea is to not get caught.
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