Spice Up Your Sex Life

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Is your marriage losing its thrill because of boring sex life? Here are 8 things you can try to bring the excitement back.

1. Anticipation + Variety = Great Sex

All good things come to those who wait. Delay penetration till he can take it no longer. Extend your foreplay with kisses, teases, orals. Just don’t let him enter till he gets really desperate and begs you to.

2. Circle of light

Do not underestimate the power of scented candles in your bedroom. Lights off for this one.

3. Raise your glass

Planning on oral sex for the night? Raise a toast first. A cold sip of champagne or even 7 Up can bring a new zing to the act.

4. The bet

Challenge him saying you can bring him to a climax before he can do the same for you. Winner gets a prize.

5. Surprise him

Send him a sexy lacy panty into his lunch box or leave it on the top of his drawer in his wardrobe after a night of great sex with a note, “Tonight. Again.”. It will remind him of the experience and send sensations down his groin.

6. The male nipple is a thing

Use honey, chocolate sauce or what you will on his nipples. Your dessert is ready.

7. Boys like toys

Satin blind fold, furry handcuffs, vibrators and dildos – pick any two and you have a permutation and combination of crazy things for experimentation.

8. I want you and I want you right now

Have a quickie in the most unexpected place and time. The adrenaline rush of doing it in a different room at an unusual time and the fear of being caught by kids/family/maid will up your game and excitement levels. Remember, the idea is to not get caught.

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Highlights

New relationships progress and slowly fizzle out with no spark left and sex becomes a mundane and boring activity to either one or maybe both the partners at times.

Here are five innovative foreplay ideas for you that have stood the pressure of time and have worked always.

Try these and tell us what worked for you.

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The stress and grind of everyday life truly take a toll on all of us. At the end of the day, getting home tired and exhausted leaves one with hardly any time to be romantic with their partners. New relationships progress and slowly fizzle out with no spark left and sex becomes a mundane and boring activity to either one or maybe both the partners at times. Well, worry not for Infano has shortlisted five innovative foreplay ideas for you that have stood the pressure of time and have worked always. Try these and tell us what worked for you.

DIRTY TALKING

Words have the power to create emotions you never knew you had. Try phrases like:

“I want to eat those lips”.

“Tell me what you want me to do to you”.

Say it teasingly in a whispering voice, right in the ear, and watch the adrenaline rush.

ZARA ZARA TOUCH ME

Do not underestimate the power of a teasing caress or a touch! Run your finger teasingly through your partner’s back, thigh, groin. Look them in the eyes while you caress their face and watch those shivers run down their spine. And when you feel the heat is turned on, probably dig those fingernails into their skin.

SATIN N PEARLS

Change your bedspreads to satin or wear satin nightwear. The fabric’s smooth texture has a great effect on the skin and can get you in the mood for a heightened love-making experience. Wear nothing but just a string of pearls around your neck while you do that. Adds to the mood.

SCENTED CANDLES

Aromatherapy never fails. A candle-lit room with sensual smells of essential oils like rose and lavender has the power to destress and also alleviate sexual feelings. Watch the shadows play on the walls as the drama unfolds between the sheets through the candlelight.

TEASE

There is no one way to tease your partner. Get innovative. Text them. Or rather sext them from work as a prelude of what’s to come for the night. Tease them with sexy pictures, nudes if you will. Whisper tender words in their ear, and gently blow on it. Catch them by surprise from behind and kiss, caress, nibble, bite, lick or just blow on their neck and watch them shudder in arousal. Or maybe add a striptease by undressing slowly!

Try these before the actual action is about to begin and get your partner into the mood for what is to come. These help to further the anticipation and get those butterflies fluttering in the tummy. Create suspense of what is to come because the thrill of the unknown is extremely exciting- the same reason why we love thrillers, mysteries, and horror movies.

Lovemaking does not always have to be penetrative. Do what works for you and your partner. There are many ways to orgasms and don’t hesitate to take the help of sexual aids if you have to get there. Don’t put the entire pressure of performance on your partner and you. Enjoy the moment, communicate and ask what they would like to get done to them or what they would like to do. This makes things easier and takes off the stress of not knowing what they like and want.

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