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Sorry Women of India, You Can’t Break Away from the Shackles of Patriarchy

Written By: Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin
January 15, 2021
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You know that you are living in a messed up country when a state’s Chief Minister who says, “I feel that the marriage age of daughters should be increased from 18 to 21 years”, also says, “A new system will be used to safeguard working women, under which any woman moving out of her house for her work will register herself at the local police station, and she will be tracked for her safety”.

Main roun ya hasun, karun main kya karun?

While I contemplate if I should laugh or cry, I realize that a surprise reaction is now normal for us as women of this country. How is this a solution, I wonder? Instead of coming up with a system to track harassers, molesters and rape accused, here the onus is again on the woman to sacrifice her liberty, privacy, and her fundamental rights of basic existence to protect herself.

As women continue to pave their way with struggles and difficulties in a man’s world, and while the men in authority struggle to find ways to curb crimes against women, the easiest solution they have found is to cage women. Not just now. Every time. How easy right?! 

The idea of always monitoring women, snatching their liberty and privacy is an easier solution than questioning the incapacity of the police to do their jobs. Instead, a system is devised to track working women, just like how animals are fitted with a tracking system or devices with a GPS. This is nothing but an apparatus to make us women conform all the more than we already were.

Being eve teased? Don’t wear provocative clothes.

Getting raped? Don’t go out at night.

Men will be men, they will commit crimes and rapes. 

You just need to be more careful as a woman. 

Because men can’t keep it in their pants or control their provocative gaze at lady parts, let’s just ask women to cover up themselves, no matter the comfort level or the weather conditions. That way we men won’t get tempted to look at them. 

And when women question this we will objectify them by equating them candies and precious stones which need to be covered or protected.

In a country where we already have it hard to live a free life as a woman, think what will happen if this system comes into place?

Imagine these scenarios:

·         If a woman refuses to get tracked and later gets harassed, she will be held responsible. 

·         Moral policing will happen based on where they go, what they do.

·         As always, it will be easy to blame women for any untoward incidents because “she meets so many men, goes to clubs, drinks,” etc.

·         Parents and husbands will bribe police officers and to monitor their daughters and wives.

Men in authority have mansplained women’s roles to suit their agenda. I really want to know why women are not involved in such decision-making? Oh wait, they are! Remember how a senior member of the National Commission for Women (NCW) suggested, “Women should avoid going out after dark,” after a 50-year-old Anganwadi worker was allegedly gang-raped in a temple, brutalized and killed the village in UP’s Badaun? She even said that this incident wouldn’t have occurred had a male member accompanied her. 

Are you laughing or crying now? Wait, here are a few other times politicians have made some bizarre statements that continue to attack basic human rights:

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·         Boys will be boys, they commit mistakes- Samajwadi Party supremo

·         Two men raping a woman cannot be termed as gang rape- Former Karnataka Home Minister

·         If a woman is caught (in a rape case), then both she and the boy should be punished- SP’s State President

·         Best way to curb India’s population growth is to provide electricity to Indian villages so that couples spend their time watching TV instead of procreating and increasing the population- Former Health and Family Welfare Minister

·         Crimes against women won’t happen in “Bharat” or the rural areas of the country. You go to villages and forests of the country and there will be no such incidents of gang-rape or sex crimes- RSS Chief

·         Women shouldn’t participate in protests- Chief Justice

·         Hindu women shouldn’t do interfaith marriage- UP CM

·         Women should just be housewives- RSS Chief

·         Girls can reproduce at 15, so why should their marital age be increased from 18 to 21?- MP Congress Leader

Shocked yet? Let me tell you one more.

Daniel Shravan, a filmmaker, had suggested that every woman should carry a condom at a rapist’s disposal so that they can offer them a hassle-free experience. He also took to Facebook (the post has now been deleted) where he posted a number of messages where he proposed a “rape without violence” scheme which will at least assure women that they will not die. This was after the December 2019 Hyderabad’s vet doctor’s rape and murder.

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This is the mentality of many. They refuse to see the problem and when they do, they try to shift blame or come up with convenient, easy solutions that benefit the perpetrator instead of the victim. And if they are people in power, the solution should be one that makes their work easier.  

Also Read https://infano.care/domestic-violence-cases-see-no-end/

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Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin

Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin has done her masters in Journalism & Communication and has worked as a senior journalist, editor and columnist for leading publications like The Logical Indian, Deccan Chronicle, Worldwide Media Corporation, The Bridge and Provoke.
With Infano, she hopes to create more awareness about women’s health issues. Suffering with Fibromyalgia, a chronic pain condition, she has also been advocating for its awareness through media.

1 thought on “Sorry Women of India, You Can’t Break Away from the Shackles of Patriarchy”

  1. Amena
    January 15, 2021 at 11:50 am

    What ever a Man does is okay?
    And Always the Woman is to be blamed.

    So many woman undergo Molestation, Marital Rape and Abuse.

    But our Judiciary system is so weak all they want is proof of it.

    Women who go through this 90% of the Abuser is known to them.

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How Does Period Underwear Work?

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  • Period Underwear is underwear intended to wear during your menstrual cycle but minus the pads/ tampons/ cups.
  • They are designed in such a way that no one will notice you’re wearing them.
  • They are reusable, great for nature, and more comfortable than sanitary napkins 
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Period underwear is the new rage in town. These are undergarments that are intended for you to wear during your menstrual cycle but minus the pads/ tampons/ cups. They come with extra layers and high-tech fabrics in the crotch area that absorb the menstrual flow and prevent leaks. 

Plus, did we mention that they look and feel like regular underwear? Yes, they are designed in such a way that no one will notice you’re wearing them!

Not only is period underwear safer and more comfortable compared to other menstrual hygiene products, but they are also the need of the hour for the environment. They last longer, generate reduced waste and are much better for the environment and our planet.

Find one that is the right fit for you and suitable for your flow, and you are all set.

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Are you tired of worrying about staining your favourite pants when on your period? Or are shifting pads and leaking tampons not allowing you to get a comfortable night’s sleep? Or, perhaps you want to switch to a more environment-friendly and sustainable option, unlike other disposable menstrual products? If you answered yes to any of those above questions, then there are only two words we’d like to say to you: Period Underwear. Yes! Period underwear is the new rage in town – and we must admit, deservedly so.

Now, we understand you’ll have some questions and even some hesitation towards period panties – this is why this article is a must-read. For today, we’ll be diving deep into the world of period underwear and answer all your questions on how they work, how safe and comfortable they are, and ultimately, how reliable.

What Is Period Underwear?

First and foremost, period underwear is not the old granny underwear or nappies from ancient times. In fact, period underwear is much more advanced than that. These are undergarments that are intended for you to wear during your menstrual cycle but minus the pads/ tampons/ cups. They come with extra layers and high-tech fabrics in the crotch area that absorb the menstrual flow and prevent leaks. However, some women tend to prefer a combination of period underwear with their regular menstrual products on days when they experience a heavier flow. But if you have a lighter flow, a period panty can be your only go-to!

How Do They Work?

Typically, period panties are composed of multiple layers, each designed for a specific purpose. These layers and special fabrics work together to wick away moisture from the skin and keep you comfortable, absorb the flow, and finally, prevent any leaks. Making a sudden switch from your regular menstrual product to period underwear can sound risky. Thus, you can always give these panties a trial shot on your lighter flow days or combine them with your pads or tampons. Plus, did we mention that they look and feel like regular underwear? Yes, they are designed in such a way that no one will notice you’re wearing them!

How Long Can One Wear Them For?

Usually, period underwear can be worn for up to twelve hours at a stretch, after which you must change them. Although, this can vary depending on the style of underwear you’ve chosen and your flow. Once the underwear has absorbed about two tampons’ worth of fluid, it’d be a good time to change. You can wash them after – don’t worry, they are easy to wash! And, if you take good care, the underwear can last you for two years and more, making them a highly sustainable and economically viable option.

How Do I Wash Them?

Washing period underwear is pretty much like all your other clothes. Hard to believe? But, it’s true! First, rinse them in cold water till you see clear water. Then, toss them into your washing machine on a delicate cycle with cold water. Remember NOT to add any fabric softener or bleach because that can harm the natural fibres and fabric of the underwear. Let them dry, and voila! They are ready to use again! Usually, these panties can take 24 to 48 hours to dry, so ensure you have a pair or two more for a smooth, mess-free cycle.

Why Make The Switch?

Not only is period underwear safer and more comfortable compared to other menstrual hygiene products, but they are also the need of the hour for the environment. You see, the one-time disposable pads and tampons we’ve been using have had quite an adverse impact on nature. They are filling up oceans and landfills and are highly unsustainable. On the other hand, period panties last longer, generate reduced waste, and are much better for the environment and our planet. Need we say more?

We hope this article has helped answer all the queries that you may have had about period underwear. They are reusable, great for nature, and far more comfortable than a sanitary napkin. Find one that is the right fit for you and suitable for your flow, and you are all set. Here’s a tip: owing to the pandemic, since most of us are currently at home, now would be a good time to give these magic panties a shot. We bet the convenience and comfort will eventually convince you to make them your sole go-to for all periods to come!

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