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All You Wanted To Know About Surrogacy

Written By: Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin
February 21, 2022

Highlights

  • What is the surrogacy process?
  • Who is a surrogate?
  • The legality of Surrogacy in India
  • The criteria for anyone opting to be a surrogate
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Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas recently announced on their Instagram that they had welcomed their first baby via surrogacy and this sparked a lot of hullabaloo on social media about exploitation and reproductive rights. This article will help you understand all you wanted to know about surrogacy.

What is the surrogacy process?

The embryo is created by combining the egg of the intended mother or egg donor with sperm from the intended father or sperm donor. This can be done through in vitro fertilization (IVF) or artificial insemination.

If the intended parents use their own egg and sperm, this is known as autologous surrogacy. With this method, no embryo transfer procedure is used. If they don’t supply their own eggs and sperm, they use the services of an egg donor and a sperm donor who will both provide these gametes to create an embryo that will be transferred to the uterus of the surrogate mother. This method is called allogenic surrogacy therapy.

The fertilized egg is then placed in the uterus of the surrogate mother, who will carry the pregnancy.

Who is a surrogate?

A surrogate mother is a woman who carries and delivers a baby to another person or couple. She has no genetic relationship to the child and carries it for someone else to give birth to. Surrogate mothers may receive compensation and may opt to give up all parental rights once their service is complete.

One of the most expensive things you’ll have to do for your family finds a gestational carrier. There is plenty of caring and trustworthy agencies that will send out a request for potential surrogates based on what kind of thing you’re looking for. Once you’ve found someone, hiring them is as easy as filling out paperwork, providing medical/genetic information, and agreeing to set up a financial agreement.

In some cases, the surrogate mother can also be a family member or a close friend who may agree to this process for no financial gain. Surrogacy is not regulated by any government agency.

Surrogacy, a boon

Surrogacy is a boon to women who cannot conceive.  It provides an opportunity for infertile couples to have a baby. It can also be a boon for single mothers or gay couples who want to have a child without all the hassles of surrogacy.

It can be beneficial for both parties as surrogates are compensated for their time and effort, and the commissioning mother is able to spend time with her family rather than being pregnant.

How You Can Use Surrogacy For Treatment

Many fertility packages with surrogates include all the necessary screenings and monitoring for both, as well as an extra FET (frozen embryo transfer) if the initial transfer was unsuccessful. They do not include services of agencies who locate surrogates, legal services, obstetrical services, or compensation or benefits to these gestational carriers.

The legality of Surrogacy in India

The Indian Parliament recently passed two acts around Indian women’s reproductive rights and health– the Assisted Reproductive Technology (Regulation) Bill and the Surrogacy (Regulation) Bill. This aims to regulate and supervise assisted reproductive technology (ART) clinics and surrogacy and curb unethical practices related to issues like sex selection and exploitation of surrogate mothers by imposing both monetary penalties and jail terms for violations.

Transnational surrogacy was banned in India in 2015, but Assisted Reproductive Techniques and domestic commercial surrogacy continue through agents and private clinics.

The new laws in the bill state that couples seeking surrogacy should be married for at least five years. The couple has to be heterosexual and includes a man between the ages of 26 to 55 years and a woman of 25 to 50 years of age. Both have to be Indians and should have no biological, adopted, or surrogate children (unless the child is mentally or physically challenged or has a life-threatening disorder).

The criteria for anyone opting to be a surrogate mother states that:

  • The woman in question must be married (at least once in her life) and should have her own child.
  • She should be between 25 to 35 years of age and a close relative of the couple opting for surrogacy.
  • Any woman agreeing to be a surrogate cannot be a surrogate more than once in her life and at the time she should be certified for medical and psychological fitness. (Source)

However, these laws exclude same-sex couples or those who are not legally married and hence are not comprehensive enough. It also does not help couples who want to start a family earlier. It also insists on proof of one partner being infertile in order to initiate the surrogacy process.

Hence the laws in India are not inclusive enough.

Also read How to talk about male infertility with your partner

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Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin

Tasneem Akbari Kutubuddin has done her masters in Journalism & Communication and has worked as a senior journalist, editor and columnist for leading publications like The Logical Indian, Deccan Chronicle, Worldwide Media Corporation, The Bridge and Provoke.
With Infano, she hopes to create more awareness about women’s health issues. Suffering with Fibromyalgia, a chronic pain condition, she has also been advocating for its awareness through media.

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It’s Time to Involve Men in Menstrual Talks: #MondayMenstruation

Written By: Sindhu Kambam
June 7, 2021 | 09:00 AM |
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Highlights

  • Today, some men are sympathetic about the difficulties women face during periods. But, still, it is difficult to challenge the taboos associated with menstruation.
  • What men need to know is that menstruation is more than just bleeding. It is about the cramps, pain, body changes, stress, discomfort, and more.
  • Men should be taught about the menstrual process. They need to understand the struggles of a woman during her menstrual cycle or periods and support her.
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Nearly every girl and woman might have the experience of hiding their sanitary napkins and lie about why they are not feeling well and suffer in silence during periods. It is because most women feel awkward and uncomfortable talking about periods with their husbands or father.

How many girls talk to their father or brother or a male friend about menstruation or ask them to buy sanitary napkins for them?

It is a fact that most men are unaware of the word menstruation and do not even know that women bleed every month!

Women talking about periods with the men in the family is also seen as taboo today. Ironically, most of the men are not even interested to know about menstruation and the pain. They feel that it is a girl thing, and we have nothing to do with it.

A few men are now bringing a change and informing themselves about menstruation and breaking these taboos. They are not ashamed of talking or discussing menstruation with others. 

Women must involve men in talks about periods. They should teach their sons, husbands, or boyfriends that menstruation is not a private thing for women.

People from all sections of society need to come together to fight the taboos, break the many stigmas and stereotypes and challenge age-old traditions and cultures.. Let us make it our responsibility to spread awareness among each other and support girls and women during that time of the month.

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Since my childhood, I have seen many instances where mothers usually tell their daughters to keep it a secret from others when they get their periods.

It is natural that girls feel scared and fearful and have no idea of what is happening to their bodies during puberty. Added to that fear is to maintain it a secret as if she has committed a crime.

Menstruation is a natural and biological process that every woman goes through every month for about half of her life and is a significant reason for our existence. Yet, it is still considered taboo and is ingrained in all of us by our society, culture, and religion.

Why do men feel awkward talking about periods?

The simple answer to this question is, they are taught to feel so. Yes.

Woman, during her periods, is tagged impure, and she is not allowed to enter the kitchen or touch any objects of religious importance. And mothers even teach their daughters not to play with boys once she starts getting her periods.

We grow up by learning from our elders. Boys are taught since childhood that it is a girl issue. Sometimes, even if a boy asks what has happened to his sister, parents try to divert the topic or say it is not their business.

In many schools, only girls are taught about menstruation and the female reproductive system in a separate class, while boys are not. Many teachers skip the topic altogether because they feel uncomfortable talking about periods.

What is it wrong to teach boys about menstruation and the female reproductive system?

Nearly every girl and woman might have the experience of hiding their sanitary napkins and lie about why they are not feeling well and suffer in silence during periods. It is because most women feel awkward and uncomfortable talking about periods with their husband or father.

How many girls talk to their father or brother or a male friend about menstruation or ask them to buy sanitary napkins for them?

It is a fact that most men are unaware of the word menstruation and do not even know that women bleed every month!

Women talking about periods with the men in the family is also seen as taboo today. Ironically, most of the men are not even interested to know about menstruation and the pain. They feel that it is a girl thing, and we have nothing to do with it.

How can men help women during periods?

It is no secret that periods are painful and stressful for every woman. Men need to understand and acknowledge the difficult times of women.

If you are not aware of what you can do, search the internet, and there are plenty of resources that help you know all about menstruation.

Assure her that you do not feel disgusted about her periods. Hold her hand and make her feel better. Try to share the work of household chores. Get some fruits. If possible, spend some time with them so that they feel relaxed.

There are men and women out there who try to teach you about the disgusting taboos of our culture. Be prepared for them and if, possible, tell them to come out of it, and the cultural taboos are not more important than the woman they love.

Still, a long way to go

Today, some men are sympathetic about the difficulties women face during periods. But, still, it is difficult to challenge the taboos associated with menstruation.

What men need to know is that menstruation is more than just bleeding. It is about the cramps, pain, body changes, stress, discomfort, and more.

Men should be taught about the menstrual process. They need to understand the struggles of a woman during her menstrual cycle or periods and support her.

A few men are now bringing a change and informing themselves about menstruation and breaking these taboos. They are not ashamed of talking or discussing menstruation with others. 

Women must involve men in talks about periods. They should teach their sons, husbands, or boyfriends that menstruation is not a private thing for women.

People from all sections of society need to come together to fight the taboos, break the many stigmas and stereotypes and challenge age-old traditions and cultures. Let us make it our responsibility to spread awareness among each other and support girls and women during that time of the month.

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Sindhu Kambam

A content writer by profession with a passion in art and science. Being a nature and technology lover, she loves to solve real problems that makes life easier.

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